Dear Barabar, I'm so, so sorry to read about your husband's diagnosis. My MIL (mother in law) was diagnosed with the same thing on the same day as your husband. Its a terrible thing. I don't know what to tell you other than to make him comfortable and tell him you love him. Just be there for him. That's what our family is doing for my MIL. Its a horrible thing to watch and in our situation, although she will have chemo and radiation, the prognosis is very grave. Please feel free to email me if you just want a shoulder to lean on or to talk to me here. I'm happy to share my experiences so far, and to listen to whatever it is that you'd like to say. Take very good care of yourself and rely on your friends and family for support as much as possible. God bless you and your husband too.